Let’s face it. We have so many work priorities that we simply
forget about life’s real priorities and we easily get lost in the pursuit of
making more money. And it is a never-ending circle. As we make more money, our
appetites increase, and we think we need more money,
and so on and so forth. Once
we get lost in this jungle, getting home tired
each and every day, years pass by, and before we realize it, we have become old
and have nothing else except our career to show for. So, here is a list of
things that you should pay more attention to. These things will ultimately
bring your more joy and personal satisfaction than your work.
1. Family Bonds
You’re already quite lucky if you have a family that loves you
and that supports you. Whenever we think of business people, we assume that
they have no time for their children. But that does not have to be so! Make
time! It is essential to participate and be a big part in your family’s life. This
balance between making money and participating in family activities can be
hard, but once you achieve it, you will feel your bonds with your loved ones
become stronger
2. The Elusive Love
Finding a love partner is already hard as it is. And if you work
from 9 to 5 (or usually more), it can be even harder. You can quite easily slip
into thinking “I don’t need anyone,” and while it is important to know how to enjoy life
when single, it is also important to at
least give love a chance and try and find someone that will
make your life a bit more fulfilling. Finding that perfect someone can take a
lot of work, and it will require a lot of compromise on both sides. But once
you find yourself in such a relationship, you will have another support pillar
in your life, a person who will always be there to give you a helping hand, or
a kind word – whatever you need.
3. The Flow of Time
Time management skills are really important for any working
professional, and they are essential if you want to have a balanced lifestyle, where
you have enough time for everything. This should be on your priority list, but most people just
throw it away and dedicate themselves to only a single aspect of their lives.
If you succeed at balancing your work and social life, you will easily create
more space for your hobbies or other activities that make you happy. Get up
early, but also remember to
sleep well. Spend your weekends wisely. Yes, get to work on
time, but also get home on time, as both of those things are equally important.
4. Philanthropy
I know that the economy is not what it used to be, but guess
what – it never is, was or will be! The economy is changing all the time, and
no one can deny that money is tight; so many of us ask a simple question: why
should I help others? Probably even people like Bill Gates, who gives a lot of
his own wealth to charity, ask themselves this question from time to time. But
the answer is simple: you are defined by how you treat those less fortunate
than yourself. Not only will you feel
good by helping others, but you will be changing lives all around
you. And similar to Superman, you should not be doing this for selfish reasons.
You can help out both financially and practically almost any charitable
organization. You could find a local animal shelter and donate some money, or
you could buy some food for a local homeless shelter. The possibilities are
endless. Just imagine how the world would look if everyone were to help out
others once in a while.
5. The Importance of Friendships
Without friends, life would not be as fun. You wouldn’t have
anyone to laugh at your jokes or anyone to ask for advice. Not to mention that
you wouldn’t have someone to share your secrets with. But friends, nowadays,
are taken for granted and are seen as a means to an end. This is why you must maintain your
friendships, and this can be done easily: invite a few of them over
for a coffee, where you can talk about life and share your experiences.
Everyone knows that we are all busy, but making time for your friends is
actually the most clear indication to them how much you deeply care about their
friendship, something that will prove to be the brightest of candles in the
darkest of times.
6. The Need to Improve Yourself
Every day you are alive you learn something new, something
interesting and something practical. You should never neglect your personal
growth. Make time to fine tune your
skills and knowledge. In this age of practicality, you can learn so
many new things online. There are courses for everything, so
something like learning a new language has never been easier. This is really
important for two simple reasons. Firstly, you will become a better person by
learning new things, which will broaden your horizons and open you up to new
experiences. Secondly, sooner or later you will probably be in a situation
where a particular skill will be really useful or even necessary, especially in
a work environment.
7. Proper Exercise
The same way you need occasional mental exercise for your mind,
you need physical exercise for your body. This can be achieved easily, as no
one is asking you to become a body builder but just to visit a gym a few times
a week. With the help of a professional, this can quickly become an easy and
fun task. If you do not like overcrowded gyms, you can go for a jog, and even
invite a friend or two. This can turn into a nice social event and will also be
healthy for your body. Exercise has been shown
to ward off depression, so whenever you are feeling down, or the
stress at work is simply killing you, then maybe you need to grab those
sneakers and run a few circles.
8. A Healthy Diet
We all know how tempting fast food can be and how hard it can be
to avoid things like bacon because… well… bacon. But
having a balanced diet will not only improve your health but it can also
improve your work performance. The next time you have free time, prepare a
healthy meal for yourself. Bring it to work the next day for lunch. This way
you can avoid cheeseburgers. The same thing goes for snacks, as the
over-consumption of sugars is the main cause of obesity in developed countries.
So make your own delicious
home-made substitutions that are not loaded with
sugar. Eat fruits and greens in larger quantities. And remember, fries do not
count as vegetables.
9. Adventure
What is the purpose of life if it is not in some way fun and
exciting? Remember to travel, read, explore and interact with new people and
situations. Do not be afraid of new experiences. People are generally afraid of
becoming stuck in a rut, but many people, ironically, find safety there and
fear leaving their comfort zone. Be stronger and smarter than that. Dare to try
new things! Go on a vacation – alone, if no one wants to go with you. A few days abroad can
open your eyes more than a year of doing your same old job. This will give you
the courage necessary to take more risks. And who knows, some of them might
change your life for the better in a way you previously thought was impossible.
10. Personal Satisfaction
All of these things we have mentioned above have one thing in
common: they make you realize that there are more important things in life than
work, and that we are quick to forget about them. But they are actually more
important to your personal feelings of satisfaction. You work hard. You try
your best and this is why you need to ensure that
you feel happy and satisfied, and it is your duty, and a duty to
others, to be content. Spend time with the right people, have understanding,
love and patience for your family, and nurture your health and your body. Try
and focus on the more important things in life, even if they do seem small and
insignificant. There is much more to life and happiness than your job. You
should never neglect your life for the sake of a paycheck.
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