It is absolutely unacceptable for a man to batter a woman black
and blue. It is simply cowardice. Despite the domestic violence, some people
will not speak out nor will they quit the relationship. They endure. They
report to their religious leaders and family members who usually encourage them
to stay. This is wrong. They are not the ones who gets rape when he is
drunk or who gets beaten every night when he is angry. This is same with your
boyfriend. Here are reasons why you
should never stay in an abusive relationship,
He will kill you one day
There have been many stories were husbands have beaten their
wives to the extent that they died. That is extreme. You do not want to be in
that situation. Your children need you alive to take care of them. So, if you
have made effort and waited for him to change and he refuses, just quit.
You will escape emotional
torment
Many women are being beaten by their husbands but they cover it
with makeup. They laugh and they smile but the emotional torment they are going
through is unbearable. Do not wait until you break down before you run away. In
fact, the only time they are happy is when they leave home.
You cannot fix him
If you stay thinking he is going to change, you are absolutely
wrong. He is not going to change even if you pray from today till tomorrow. You
cannot fix him. If it means leaving home to temporarily lodge in a Lagos
hotel, you should.
It is good for your sanity
and wellbeing
If you are going through domestic violence and you keep quiet.
it will definitely affect your mental health and general wellbeing. You will be
very worried and scared of your husband. It will become a cat and mouse
relationship. Save yourself from that stress.
You will be safe
You and your children will be safe if you leave an abusive
relationship. You owe them that responsibility.
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