For the Ladies: Four Kind Of Guys You Shouldn't Marry

Are you a lady? Are you preparing for marriage? Or are you about to say yes to that fine dude after making several advances at you?

If yes then here are the four kinds of men that you should definitely not marry: 

1. The mama’s boy

Ladies, you do not want to marry a mama’s boy, you will always and forever be in contention with his mother. He will always compare you to his mother, always expects you to do his laundry, cook and do other things exactly like his mother. A mama’s boy won’t hesitate to run home to his mom after any arguments between you two. Ladies, never marry a man who does not know how to clean up after himself.

2. The sad KId

If the guy you are dating is always unhappy, it’s definitely not a brilliant idea to marry him, if you want a happy marriage. A miserable guy always complains, he is constantly blaming others. He would not take much action to change what he does not like. Someone who likes to complain, but will not make changes, is not the ideal husband by any stretch of the imagination.

3. The broke dude

You have to ask yourself why he is always broke, does he hate working? Does he spend extravagantly?  Whatever the case, you probably do not want to marry someone who can’t hold on to his money. This means you should “marry responsible not rich" because the guy can be rich and not responsible, so you better opt for responsible guy over a rich dude, who is an "ijebu". The guy should be able to save, if he can’t pay for a date now, he probably will not be able to do much in the future. Ladies before you decide to become serious about someone it is very paramount that you take note of how the guy currently handles his money.

4. The master manipulator

A manipulator is someone who controls or handles with skill. A man who uses manipulation techniques to get whatever he wants is not good marriage material. Even if he only does it just now and then, it is no better than doing it all the time. The fact that he has the skills to manipulate and is willing to use them when he needs to is a very bad sign. The problem with manipulators is that you either give them exactly what they want or you will most certainly incur their wrath. You will end up walking on eggshells to make him happy, avoid being manipulated. That is no way to live. If you are already dating a manipulator, marrying him will ensure more unhappiness.

If you are dating any of these types of men, it is important that you consider the effect this person is having on your life, these personality traits can spell disaster for your happiness.

Before you proceed on that "I do" aisle, ask you self this question “will your life be better if you marry him? If not, run while there is still time.

Ladies have this at the back of your mind, you can NEVER change a man, so instead of thinking you will change him, consider you other options.

By Adekunle Adewale