Couples
of elder generation always seek to live as long as possible with their
partners. While relationships today tend to be more short-lived and people
don’t really think it’s important to keep a long-term relationship anymore…But
you know relationships aren’t about games, they’re about unconditional love,
loyalty, care, etc. Below are signs that he’s a man who would never stop loving
you, if you’ve found one, treasure him and love him harder.
1. He’s fully committed to you and your relationship together.
1. He’s fully committed to you and your relationship together.
Being
there throughout the good times is easy. It’s when the going gets tough that
it’s important that you both stick together. Real men don’t run out after a
little fight, and they don’t take it out on their significant others when
they’re in a bad mood. They understand how important their relationship is, and
won’t let anything at all get in the way of persevering.
2. He doesn’t avoid problems.
Like I
said, a real man doesn’t run out when things get rough. And he also doesn’t
bottle up his feelings until he explodes, either. If something is bothering him
within the relationship, he brings it up carefully and respectfully. He is
comfortable talking through the issues he’s been having, and will make a
genuine effort to fix any underlying issue that’s been plaguing the
relationship. He understands that even major problems don’t define the
relationship; it’s how you both work through them that does.
3. He pays attention to the little things.
If he
lived alone, he probably wouldn’t care if the dishes weren’t done, the garbage
was overflowing, or if the only thing to eat in the house was pizza rolls. But
he knows you care about these things, so he takes time away from what he enjoys
doing to make sure the house is clean and the fridge is stocked. He won’t ever watch
a movie you both love without you by his side, and he lets you pick the iPod
playlist in the car.
4. He is smart and wise.
I’ll
give you the benefit of the doubt that you picked a smart one. But the true measure
of a man’s intelligence is not simply how smart he is, but what he does with
his wisdom. He sees things from an objective point of view, and is able to give
you great advice with any situation you face. He puts himself in your shoes
constantly, so he understands exactly what you’re going through, and he doesn’t
blow you off with half-hearted cliches. And you just know he will pass on great
words of wisdom to your future children.
5. He wants you to feel good about yourself.
He
thinks you’re beautiful; why would he be with you if he didn’t? But it’s not
enough for him to
think so; he also goes to great lengths to make sure you know you’re beautiful. And it’s not just
simple words of reassurance, either. He’ll be able to sense when you think
you’re having a bad hair day, and make it a point to compliment your ‘do. He’ll
come up with ways to make you feel beautiful, inside and out, regardless of how
you feel at the time. He’ll do whatever he can to make you see yourself as he
sees you each and every day.
6. He makes your problems his own.
If
something’s bothering you, it bothers him. He will take on your problems and
try to figure out ways to solve them, or at least get through them with the
least amount of pain possible. Your issues keep him up at night, but that
doesn’t bother him. What does bother
him is when you’re facing a problem that he can’t help you with. When these
situations inevitably arise, he does the best he can by standing by your side
no matter what.
7. He laughs at your mistakes.
He
knows everyone makes mistakes, and he’s able to shrug yours off easily. If you
say something that offended him, he knows you didn’t mean it. He’ll laugh it
off, even if it did sting a little. If you let him down in some way (like you
had to stay late at work even though he had a nice dinner planned), he won’t
hold it against you. He may be caring and sensitive, but he’ll never make you
feel bad for unintentionally hurting his feelings.
8. He takes his own mistakes seriously.
On the
other hand, anything he does that ends up hurting you will weigh heavy on his
shoulders for a long while. He rarely beats himself up about much, but when he
causes you pain, he’ll do anything to right his wrongs. He’ll never tell his
love to “lighten up” or that he “was only kidding.” He knows you enough to know
exactly what to do to harm you, but he would never in a million years dream of
doing so.
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