How To Woo A Lady And Get A YES

Have been wondering how I can help my fellow shy brothers who find it pretty difficult to ask a lady out. "Pretty easy" some will say but for a guy with real purpose, he kind of feels he doesn't want to lose a good friend on a Good Friday or doesnt  want to look stupid.
 Or maybe, I don't just know what to say.
For whatever reason best known to as many of those that feel this way, I think I have a solution, or so I thought. Though not proved valid but then it's tested and trusted.  All you need do is follow my lead!!!
Usually girls are amazing creatures, wonderfully made by God.  At least, before she turn "Karishika", she was a saint. So what is it with your grumbling? So yeah, if you can just take your time with her, she's simple and kind enough if you are also kind enough to understand she's a weaker vessel. Well how to treat a woman is a topic for another day, till then...  Check below...
1. Build a bond around her
I  have never believed in love at first sight. Don't blame me, love isn't magic and I think it takes time to like someone, and then love, before dating sets it. One of the various things you should do is, after collecting her detail, either her whatsapp number, BBM pin or wherever online chatting platform is cool for you, then build a bond. Make sure she looks forward to chatting with you every night. Make sure she laughs, take time to ask her questions and believe me, if she's cool with you, then she'll open up and gradually grow fond of you with time. Ladies love the cool cat.
2. Don't move too fast
Yeah, stop right there. Fine, you've got feelings for her but you arent sure if she feels the same and I know you arent expecting a NO as an answer. So take it cool, you for try plan your moves. If you move too fast, you might get a yes but you for move steady. It helps to understand each other and helps the relationship in the long run.
3. Make her your best friend
Yeah, tell her she's the only female friend you've got, the only one that recognizes you too well. Usually this should be after months you've started chatting with her. So she also feels the same since within a short time, you've become an integra part of her.
At this stage believe me, she will jump at you anywhere, she's starting to have feelings for you but to her, your just a friend. Maybe, but truly, a buddie of life.
4. Don't give up, Remember everything
This part is where most guys fumble, we say "is that what I will continually think of". But then, to be sincere, she starts feeling that sense of belongings when you remember things she has said and normally she has forgotten she told you.
5. Text her
Yeah, most girls resort to their message box when they are lonely and cold. Whenever she sees yours, it will send a chill cold shiver through her spine and gradually the magic is setting it
6. Don't be Jobless
I must mention this though. If not, the heavens will punish me. Don't be lazy and stay online often, except on rare occasion. Even if she needs someone to talk to and its in the broad daylight. Stand in for her but not for too long. You being busy means you've got things doing. Don't stay online all day and chat like an OBO. Even if your one.

After a few while, between 2 to 3 months... You should be able to read in between the lines, to know if she likes you or not. Sir, some ladies might take more time. But this is how you know she's fond of you already.
* When she says I have been waiting for you to come online
* When you send her a goodnight hug and she responds
* She laughs at your stupid jokes and tell you its crazy
* She tells you how sweet your text were and whenever you don't message her. She feels somehow
* Check out for her Display pictures and status, comments them. They mean a lot to her
* She commends your pictures and tell you they are cute.
* She chats with you into the night... Like really into the night
This are signs she's falling, it might not be known to her but believe me you, you just got yourself Le Boo
Its not done, No NO NO NO. It's rare for ladies to actually speak their mind except in cases when you can plan your moves and she gives you enough clues to smash the nail by the head. If not, follow my lead.
All you need do now after confirming already you won't get a 'No' is to tell her that... Before I illustrate this, you have to be a perfect gamer, find a good day to die hard and live that day to the fullest, pretend as if you haven't been alright. She cares about you and so, she wants to know what's wrong.
Myself: hi dear (usually you stopped using dear a long time ago)
She: hey wassup
Myself: am cool, just there and you?
She: am ok too
Myself: ok dear (with a smiley that shows you arent fine)
She: hey, you sound awful, what's wrong, tell me?
Myself: lol, you sure do know how to read me, am fine though, just troubled... But I will be fine
She: just tell me, I miss my laughing bestie please
Myself: hmmmm, I dunno how this will look and all that.
She: what now, just tell me
Myself: I have someone that I like allot and dunno how to tell her, dunno how she will feel, am scared she might say no and it might affect our friendship.
She: hmmmm... Who is this person you haven't talked about all this while. (She's jealous)
Myself: to be sincere, I never thought I could develop this chemistry, dunno... Can't think.
She: hmmmm... Just tell her now, at least it's better than keeping it to yourself, any girl will be lucky to have you
Now she has given you the green light, its now your turn to accelerate. Tell her what you feel for her. Make sure to ask her out on a date. Try and be a friend and enjoy the moment with her.
Anyway if you get a No...Don't be dismayed, chillax that Challey wants to know if you won't run away, she will give you that green light again.
I hope this helps.

Shojobi Ife a.k.a @Officialnotch07