It is a new world order where technology rules everything we do.
This why smartphones are very important in our lives and we do all sorts
of things with it. Some people go as far as sharing nude pictures with their
trusted boyfriends. For others, they may mistakenly share the nudes online or
hackers may take advantage of their phone's insecurity to hack their phones or
computer and splash the pix all over the internet. And before you flip your
fingers, the pix have gone viral and may have been viewed or clicked
thousands of times. This can be very embarrassing and can lead to depression
and then suicide. You do not have to go down this route. Here are the things to do if your nude pix
appears online.
Get rid of all your gadgets
Perhaps this should be the first thing you should do. Get rid of
your smartphones and gadgets. This is because the more you see the pictures,
the more you will get infuriated and depressed.
Keep yourself in company of
close friends
Never be alone in this type of situation. You will be very
vulnerable and you may hurt yourself. You should call your close friends or
loved ones to come stay with you or you leave your home to go stay with them.
However, do not reach out to friends who will judge you.
Report to the police
If it is a case of revenge porn, you should report to the police
so that they can take action. He should not share your private pix on the
internet because you broke up with him. If he does, report to the police. Don't
say you will leave him in the hands of God because he will
be revel and grin in what he has done.
Accept It
It is very difficult to accept such a thing but you have no
choice than to. Learn from it and move on. It was a mistake. Anyone who loves
you will accept you for who you are.
See a psychologist
See a psychologist who can take you through the process of psychotherapy
to help you overcome the incident. This is one of the best ways to recover from
the incident.
Don't take revenge
Yes, you are very angry. You have the right to take revenge and
do something nasty to the person who shared your nudes. Like earlier said,
accept it and move on. But still, make a report to the police.
Right to be forgotten
This is a long shot. The Right to be forgotten is the right of
individuals who have gone through a terrible ordeal to erase such an incident
or ordeal online. In other words, when you search for your nudes, they
will be unable to find it online. This is just to prevent continuous
stigmatisation for the rest of your life. This is possible and only search
engines like Google and others can take it off. You just have to contact them.
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