We all wish for success but not all of us wish to pay the price, some would even think they can cut corners. The truth is, success is a journey, when you view it that way, you would realize a journey takes time and energy. Here are things you should sacrifice for you to succeed
1. Time
Truth
is, there are so many things to do in a day – it’s not about
having enough time, it’s about making use of your time. We all have the same 24
hours and we all have the opportunity to use our time wisely. When we sacrifice
time, we’re prioritising a certain task over another one. That task and
all the others we accomplish – are the key to our success.
I write
to-do lists every day and I stick to them. I set my own deadlines. I try my
best not to procrastinate. But if I do, I don’t beat myself up about it.
Negative self-talk and thinking, “I wish I had more time” simply takes away
the time you still have! You can think, “I only have 20 minutes to do my
work.” or you can think more positively, “I have 20 minutes to do my work. If I
use this time wisely, I’ll be 20 minutes closer to finishing the task.” If we
don’t make better use of our time and achieve our small goals, then we’ll never
achieve the bigger ones that are most important to us.
2. Personal life
When
we are determined to succeed, we have to make changes in our personal lives –
in our friendships and our relationships. It’s not about neglecting your loved
ones – it’s about working around your personal life.
Each
one of us has their responsibilities and sometimes we simply have to
compromise with other people. If we don’t learn to say ‘no’ or give up a night
out with friends to study/work, we are the ones who suffer. These are the
moments in our life when we have to think of our needs, be sensitive to our
loved ones’ feelings and hope that they’ll understand that we need to do what’s
best for us.
4. Sleep
Sometimes,
no matter how productive you are during the day, you need those extra hours at
night. Without those extra periods of peace and quiet, you may not be able to
get everything done. For those wanting to achieve success, the rewarding
feeling they get when they’ve accomplished
their task always makes the reduced amount of sleep worth it.
5. Health
The
reality is, when we’re determined to achieve our goals, we might start to
neglect our bodies and our minds. We start to eat less healthy, do less
exercise or maybe reduce it to none at all, we might even put our emotional and
mental health at risk. It may not be the most ideal thing to do, but those
determined to be successful know that it’s only a temporary solution.
We may
not be able to put our full attention into our physical, mental and emotional
health but we have to be aware of when our body is being overworked.
Successful people may start to neglect parts of their life in order to improve
other parts of their life. But this can only last for a while. Sooner or later
you have to live a healthier life or you’ll regret it in the future.
7. Sanity
There
are days when I’m feeling more stressed, tired and overworked than on
others. There are days when I question whether what I’m doing is really
worth it. But I know it is. Working hard towards our big goals in life was
never meant to be easy. These goals and aspirations for the future are meant to
test us, challenge us, and help us to realise how badly we really want them.
Maybe
your family and friends call you crazy for working so hard. But you need to do
what’s right for you. Don’t forget to take breaks, to relax when you really
need to, to take time out for yourself. But know that in those
temporary crazy moments, you are a step closer to having what you truly want.
8. Immediate desires
There
are so many things that each of us wants right now. Things that might
encourage us to procrastinate when we really shouldn’t. We might want to do
something simple like check our Facebook feed. We might want to do something
more significant like buy a new car. But the question is – what is most
important to us? We have to make the choice between our immediate
desires and the needs that will propel our dreams forward.
Fact
is, it’s not wrong of us to have these immediate desires, these temptations to
choose the ‘easier’ option’. It’s normal to feel that way. However, when we
sacrifice what we want right now, we are saving our time and energy for something
more important. Something that will bring us one step closer to our real goals.
Something we truly want, not just something we want right now.
Maybe
we don’t want to sacrifice our time, personal life, sleep, health, stillness
and sanity. Maybe it just feels too difficult. But I’ll tell you right now,
I’ve sacrificed every one of these things at one point or another.
If you
want to be successful and achieve what you really want in life, you’ll have to
make sacrifices. But when you reach the end of that mountain, you’ll be so very
glad that you never gave up the journey.
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