6 Ways To Ask Her Out, Tested and Confirmed

Asking a Nigerian lady on a date is fairly straightforward when compared to other things expected of you throughout the dating process -- it's surely less worrisome than figuring out how to please her down South or the mind games that inevitably come during the courting period.

Here are 6 ways to ask her out that actually work, it worked for me, so it can also work for you.

 6. Tell Her You're Taking Her To Lunch

Ladies like to be pampered, while some like "osho free", to get a lady to say Yes to your date, you can nicely tell her that you are taking her for lunch. Instead of giving her a bunch of options, or asking her if she's interested, just tell her you're taking her out. It'll show her you can be dominant and don't mind taking charge.

5. Just Ask For Her Number

Sometimes it doesn't have to be more complicated than that. Here's a great testimony "A lady was in the same department with this guy in the University, one day while she was leaving the class, the cute guy who usually seats in the next row in the lecture hall stopped her in the hallway and said 'Hi. I don't ever see you outside of class, but I'd like to. Can I get your number?' Simple and to the point. They had never spoken before this encounter, so she felt for him to have such courage of walking me up; she had to give him her number. Four years later and they are still together and are getting married this year".  

4. Make The Extra Effort

One small study of college students, 93% of women said they preferred to be asked out, while 83% of men preferred to do the asking. This is the way of our social wiring: we seem to like the chase as it is. So make the extra effort and get to it.

3. Be Specific

No, "Wanna hang out sometime?" will not make a woman's panties drop.

Showing her you've put some thought into your ask is essential -- too many women sigh knowingly when yet another guy asks them to "come over for a movie". On the other hand, when you've made a real effort to suggest something it shows foresight and effort -- the latter of which, if you'll remember, gives you major points.

2. Pay Attention

Women want you to notice them for something unique -- the age old compliments about her looks just won't do. Be thoughtful.

Why? Conscientiousness, or the state of being attentive, thoughtful and having a desire to follow-through or do a task well, is predictive of a number of positive elements in life, including having a happy relationship.

1. Introduce Yourself

Like you've been told a hundred times, confidence is sexy. Why? For one, confident folk are natural salespeople. Research shows that confidence makes us seem more trustworthy — and since dating is essentially a game of salesmanship (at least at first), confidence makes people accept your pitch.

That's the six ways I know to ask a girl out, I tried it, it worked. So try it and share your testimonies.

Complied by Adekunle Adewale