Goals:
We love them, we hate them, and we should never live without
them. So many goals set and so little time to accomplish them or so little
drive to pursue them! How can you actually achieve your goals?
While
there isn’t a magic wand that you can simply point at your goals and watch them
become realities, you can definitely take steps to ensure you achieve the goals
you set. Let’s explore the steps you can take but keep in mind that you are
uniquely and wonderfully made; so take what you can use and tailor it to fit
your needs. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all kind of deal, it’s about the journey
to finding what drives you and keeps you focused on achieving the goals
you set for your life.
Step 1: Believe
Believing
is an interesting concept: it takes an element of knowledge and faith. You must
believe that you can achieve your goals because you have the “knowledge”
necessary to achieve them (if you don’t have the knowledge, get it!) and you
have the “faith” to pursue them. Believing that you are capable of achieving
the goals you set for yourself may be the single most important thing you
can do when setting out to achieve your goals. After all, if you don’t believe
in yourself, who else will? So, whatever you set your mind to, whatever goal
you want to achieve, believe that you have or will have the capacity to achieve
it.
Step 2: Do it anyway
At the
risk of sounding oh-so-cheesy: think of Phil Collins and the song “Against
All Odds” when setting out to achieve your goals. Sure, people may laugh on
your face or behind your back, life may ridicule you for having a goal, and you
may second guess yourself more than a dozen times, but even if you are “against
all odds” when pursuing your goal, do it anyway. You have one life to live, and
nothing to lose by trying. You will live no life and lose everything if you
don’t try at all.
Step 3: Be fearless
Ok, so
you believe you
can do it, you are doing it against all odds,
now, you must strive to be fearless. While there is a good chance that you’ve
already messed with your comfort zone if you’ve gotten this far down the steps,
in order to achieve your goals, you must cleave on to fearlessness. Why is
being fearless so important? Because you will fail many times, and it is only
through fearlessness that you will have the courage to face failure and say: “I
am moving forward, I am pressing on.”
Step 4: Practice Persistence
In
order to achieve success when setting out to reach your goals, it is imperative
that you be persistent. You must be persistent not only in following all these
steps but also on your strategy to achieve your goals. Whatever plan you
set for yourself in order to achieve your goals, don’t cut yourself any slack.
Be persistent in the time you get up, the time you go to sleep, the time you
take to plan and the time you take to dream. Persistence will not only keep you
standing firm and tall in the face of failure but it will build self-control, a
crucial ingredient for success!
Step 5: Be patient
Patience
these days is a very rare quality. We are practically born with an inpatient
gene, one that carries us through life with the expectation that because our
mac & cheese is done in exactly 3 minutes, everything else in
life should follow that pattern. Well, this I-want-it-now disease is your
biggest threat to achieving your goals. Nothing that is worth pursuing is done
in the blink of an eye; it takes times, hard work, and you must definitely be
patient. When desperation for the lack of success starts to creep into your
soul, practice patience and remind yourself that you have been created for
greatness and are endowed with the necessary abilities to succeed in the
achieving all your goals.
Source: LifeHack
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