It is
okay to be ordinary- the vast majority of people are. There are only a handful
of billionaires in a world occupied by 7 billion people. What are some of the
factors that set these people apart from the pack? Although
you’re not a billionaire, you may find that you possess many aspects of a
successful mindset already. These
are some of the differences between the mindsets of ordinary people and the
super successful:
1. Ordinary people are stuck with old answers.
Successful people ask new questions
Ordinary
prefer to live their life the traditional way and repeat the same old
processes. For them, it is more secure and comfortable to live this way. But
the successful are not satisfied with the status quo. They want to ask new
questions and find new answers.
2. Ordinary people do not set goals.
Successful people set realistic goals
Ordinary
people often do not see the significance or appeal of setting goals. To
them, it really is not that important. But to the successful, goals are
compasses that they know will lead them to their desired destination.
3. Ordinary people listen to the opinions of
others. Successful people create their own opinions
Ordinary
people want to adjust their lives to the standards of others, rather than focus
on influencing people with their innovative opinions. Ordinary people think
that doing this will make them happy, but successful people are happy with
making others adjust to their standards.
4. Ordinary people see failures as the end of
the road. Successful people see failures as platforms for growth
No one
likes to fail but what differentiates successful people and ordinary people is
their attitude towards failure. Ordinary people see it as the end of their
plan, because they are not creative enough to reinvent themselves. But
successful people see it as a ladder to their next step.
5. Ordinary people do not see the importance
of big picture ideas. Successful people cherish these ideas
Ordinary
people think hard work is all they need to do to be successful, but
successful people know the importance of big picture ideas. They know that
these seemingly outlandish ideas could actually generate huge success.
6. Ordinary people do not value their time.
Successful people maximize their time
Ordinary
people do not understand how they can make the most of their time and worry
about what they are missing out on. Successful people are organised, focused,
and do more with the time that they have.
7. Ordinary people see money as evil.
Successful people see money as a tool to get what they want
Ordinary
people think that those who are successful are either lucky or dishonest, while
successful people understand that money will offer them more options in life.
8. Ordinary people make wishes. Successful
people act
Ordinary
people gamble and hope the government, a spouse, or a boss will change
their fortune. But successful people do not wait for things to happen, they
make it happen.
9. Ordinary people live for money. Successful
people live for their passion
Ordinary
people work because of money, but successful people work because of the passion
that drives them.
10. Ordinary people have ordinary
expectations. Successful people dream big
Ordinary
people have low or average expectations of their lives. On the other hand,
successful people believe nothing is impossible and they dream big.
11. Ordinary people live above their means.
Rich people live below their means
Ordinary
people want everything to be good all at once and struggle with delayed
gratification. But successful people know why they have to wait, and they save
and invest to make more money.
12.Ordinary people play it safe. Successful
people can take risks
Ordinary
people understand that by being safe you can protect your wealth, but
successful people know that wealth can be attained by taking certain thoughtful
risks.
13. Ordinary people believe you cannot have it
all. Successful people believe you can have it all
Ordinary
people are always playing the victim and claiming you cannot have good things
across all the domains of your life. But successful people know you can have
wealth, a great family, great health, and a great career.
14. Ordinary people believe in formal
education. Successful people know that education is unending
Ordinary
people think the best and only education is in a four-walled institution, but
successful people understand that education is unending and you have to keep on
learning every day.
15. Ordinary people have a poor attitude.
Successful people have a rich attitude
Ordinary
people often blame others when their perseverance and determination fall short.
But successful people are always working on having a positive attitude,
developing their character, and acting in a manner that aligns with their
values.
Source: LifeHack
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