My boyfriend must always ask for my permission before we make love - Vandora

Vandora has come out to say that it is only proper for her boyfriend to seek her approval before they have make love, regardless of the fact that they are in a relationship or have been intimate before.
The former Big Brother Nigeria Housemate, whose real name is Vanessa Williams, once stated during the reality show that her ex- boyfriend raped her repeatedly by having sex with her while she was asleep and without her consent.

In a recent interview she said “When I made that comment about my ex in the house, rape had just been ‘redefined’ and based on what we were told, I believed that what my former partner did could be termed as rape. It was actually a long time ago that I dated the person in question and the relationship had ended as of the time I made that comment. As a matter of fact, I’ve been in my present relationship for over five years, however, at that time, I didn’t really know the gravity of what I said but it doesn’t matter that we were in a relationship; what the guy did was actually rape. If anybody is taking you against your will, it is rape, whether you’re in a relationship or not. My partner has to seek permission before we get intimate because I may not want to at that time. It doesn’t count even if we had been intimate before then. Rape is actually a big deal and so far sex is not consensual, it is wrong.”